No love is born by orders and threats. What was born was fear that disguises itself as love. Please never mix up love and fear. If you thought that fear were love, you would be trapped in the illusion.
Many people on our planet also have this misunderstanding. And so you aliens too probably believe that you are just trying to love your enemies as much as you can. But you know what, love can be forcefully created by neither earthlings nor aliens. All you can do would be to cheat yourself to believe that you love them, while you dominate people by force and fear.
|Don't force love|
|as what is born is not love
but something completely different.